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Some problems that single women should pay attention to when visiting Japan

from 23 lost contact to today, 26 year old Fujian primary school female teacher Wei qiujie a person in Hokkaido Travel disappeared, it has been nine days, where is Wei qiujie’s little sister? It’s still a mystery.

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. First, according to her own plan, qiujie went to fuliano to see lavender on the morning of the 22nd. From Sapporo to fuliano, there are two basic means of transportation. One is to take the express train, the other is to take the tourist bus, which can go back and forth on the same day. Now it’s the peak season for fuliano to see lavender. There are many tourists, not out of the way. At 4 p.m. that day, she sent a wechat to her family, saying that she was on her way back to the hotel. But, in fact, at this time, she was on her way to Ahan lake. Why does she lie to her family?

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second, there are only two ways to get to Ahan lake from fuliano. One is to take a long-distance bus, but generally speaking, it only takes one hour to take a bus, and the bus station only has a beckoning station. People who are not familiar with the local situation generally do not want to take this bus station. Another way is by car. From fuliano to Ahan lake, I used to take a car to walk through this mountain road. If it is a direct road, it takes 1.5 to 2 hours to drive. If you take a taxi, you need at least 30000 yen (about 2000 yuan). A girl like Qiu Jie will not choose to take a taxi, and there is almost no taxi in fuliano. So, Qiu Jie took who’s car to Ahan lake?

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are the third. Qiujie booked all hotels in Hokkaido as early as June 1, that is to say, she had no plan to go to Ahan lake at all, because Ahan lake is so partial that there is no private car to play. If said, Qiu Jie gave up the plan of visiting fuliano directly on the 22nd, and decided to go to Ahan lake from Sapporo City, it is impossible in theory, because Ahan lake is not as fun as fuliano, and fuliano is now the best time to see flowers, it is a pity to give up. At the same time, Sapporo is more than 300 kilometers away from the ahan Lake in a straight line. There is no direct train to the Ahan lake. It takes four and a half hours by train to get to the lake, and then takes a long-distance bus from the lake for nearly two hours. That is to say, from the moment of departure, Qiu Jie has decided to spend the night in the lake, because she can’t come back that day. If so, when she leaves Sapporo’s family hotel, she should tell the hotel that she will not come back at night. At the same time, she should also bring some overnight items – in practice, she only carries a small satchel, according to the hostess, not to travel, but to go shopping.

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, that is to say, Qiu Jie temporarily decided to go to Ahan lake, and in order not to worry about her family, she concealed her whereabouts to Ahan lake.

, then why does she hide her whereabouts to Ahan lake? Because once you say that you are going to Ahan lake, you are afraid that your family will know that there is no convenient transportation there. How do you get there? If she tells her family directly that someone is willing to drive her, then she has to explain who the driver is? If the driver was a man, she would not dare to tell her family. So she went to Ahan lake and took a sightseeing boat, but she didn’t post any content related to Ahan lake on her micro blog.

just now, I was talking with the president of a Chinese travel agency who often drives to fuliano and Ahan lake. His intuitive analysis is very clear. If Qiu Jie really goes to fuliano, then she can only take someone else’s car to Ahan lake, and she trusts the driver who is willing to take her, because she has not resisted this kind of driver who knows that she will stay overnight and go to a stranger The temptation of living in a remote place, as a girl, it takes courage.

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so, what kind of driver can gain qiujie’s trust is most likely Chinese, because there are many Chinese drivers driving business cars or private cars between fuliano and Ahan lake to pick up small Chinese tourist groups.

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however, the problem came again. According to the investigation on the monitoring video of the ahan Lake Hot Spring Hotel where qiujie stayed, the police inquired about the front desk attendant of the hotel and found that qiujie went to the front desk alone to check in. When I left the next morning, I was alone with no one else. A crew member of the

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ahan Lake tourist boat said that she noticed that Qiu Jie was on the boat alone, because the general tourists on the tourist boat were group tourists, or family members together, and a young and beautiful Chinese girl came to travel by boat alone, feeling particularly rare, so she left a deep impression.

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, then, the whole time around the lake by boat is about 80 minutes. After returning to the wharf, where did Qiu Jie go? Qiujie left no trace. Hokkaido police dispatched a large number of police forces, and also mobilized helicopters and police dogs to search the Ahan lake and surrounding areas on a large scale, but no shadow of qiujie was found. Will

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encounter tigers and other wild animals? One of my travel agency’s president friends said that there are wild animals in the surrounding area of Ahan lake. However, the tourism environment of Ahan lake is well prepared. I have never heard of wild animals running around the scenic spot or the hotel. Unless you go climbing alone, there are no famous mountains nearby.

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, then, how did qiujie leave the Ahan lake? First of all, she can only take a ride. So whose car is it? Where did you go after the ride? Why didn’t the driver show up with Qiu Jie at her hotel? There is a possibility that this driver is staying in a nearby hotel. He takes qiujie to the hotel and leaves. The next day, he takes qiujie away. In this way, there must be a connection between Qiu Jie and this driver. If the driver is Chinese, the most convenient way to contact is wechat. Please check the wechat contact content between Qiu Jie’s newly added friend and this friend. You should be able to send some clues. The owner of the

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hotels said that she had a conversation with Qiu Jie, Qiu Jie’s Japanese level, no problem with Japanese life conversation. Then, Qiu Jie’s driver who was accosted in fuliano is also a Japanese, and he has a residence (including a reserved hotel and personal residence) near Ahan lake. So does Qiu Jie have the courage to follow a Japanese man in such a remote Hokkaido countryside, which requires a big question mark? There is another possibility of

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. Did Qiu Jie encounter any unhappiness and end her life in Hokkaido? This possibility cannot be ruled out. After her daughter disappeared, qiujie’s father had arrived in Sapporo on the night of the 28th, and walked into qiujie’s family hotel, where he saw her daughter’s suitcase.

here is a new situation to pay attention to: in the suitcase, Qiu Jie’s father found a letter from her daughter to her parents. In this letter, Qiu Jie confessed her troubles and said that she would like to thank her parents for their support so far. Qiu Jie’s father confirmed that the letter was written by her daughter.

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however, a female colleague of Qiu Jie confirmed in an interview with Asahi TV that they had come together to travel in Hokkaido. As a result, the colleague was unable to come because of an emergency, so Qiu Jie decided to come to Hokkaido alone and did a lot of travel homework. That is to say, qiujie has troubles, but not that kind of extreme troubles.

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we expect Qiu Jie to come out alone to relax and meet a man driving, so we let Hokkaido play hide and seek with his family.

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are only based on the traffic situation of Hokkaido and the information disclosed by the police at present. At present, the Chinese Embassy in Japan has repeatedly urged the Japanese police to fully search. Hokkaido police have also set up a search headquarters, and released Qiu Jie’s photos and videos, and ordered local police to watch all the surveillance videos in Hokkaido, investigate all the hotels and hotels, and make every effort to search for the Chinese girl!

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from the case of Qiu Jie’s disappearance, we need to remind some major problems when planning a person to visit Japan, especially when a single girl comes to visit Japan:

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first, try not to use accommodation. Why do you try not to use homestay? Because many of them have no business license, and many of them are far away from the city center in remote places, not as safe as hotels. A few days ago, there was a case of home stay rape in Fukuoka. A Japanese owner, Suzuki, raped a 31 year old single Korean woman who came to stay, and was arrested by the police. When I say that, it may cause protests from friends who operate home stay in Japan. I want to say that if you are a regular business, you must publish your relevant certificates on the Internet so that single female tourists can have a peace of mind.

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second, don’t take cars that don’t know people, including private cars contracted in Japan through the overseas network car Hailing system, because these private cars in Japan are illegal black cars without taxi business license, there is no way to claim for compensation in case of a traffic accident, if found by police, the driver may also be arrested. At the same time, you are not familiar with the driver’s situation at all, and you are not clear about the East, West, North and south of Japan. In that case, it is easy to have problems.

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third, do not travel alone in remote places. Although the social security in Japan is generally good, it does not exclude the individual’s criminal impulse and possible accidents.

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fourth, do not go with foreigners you just know. In Japan’s family hotels and youth hotels, foreign single tourists stay more, and the majority of them are young and middle-aged. It’s easy to go out together in this special environment, which should be avoided as much as possible.

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fifthly, when you go to any place, you should pay attention to taking photos and send them to your family in time to report your whereabouts.

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generally speaking, if you travel in Tokyo, Osaka, Kyoto and other busy big cities, even if you are alone, you will not be very dangerous, because there are people everywhere.

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sixth, make sure to record the emergency contact number of the Chinese Embassy in Japan, the number of the consular rescue center of the Ministry of foreign affairs of China, and the alarm number 110 of the Japanese police, preferably the mobile phone number of a friend in Japan, and you can contact at any time in case of problems. At the end of

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, I still care about the safety of qiujie’s little sister. I sincerely hope that she can go back to her parents safely and pray for her!

How the suspected body of Wei qiujie was found

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lasted for more than a month, which may bring the most painful results. An old fisherman found the body of a woman who was suspected to be in jeopardy of autumn on the beach of Guilian coast early Sunday morning.

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at about 5:50 a.m. on the 27th, an old fisherman picking up kelp by the sea found a woman’s body hit by the waves on the beach along the coast of kualulu city. “When I saw her, I felt like sleeping on the beach,” the fisherman told Asahi TV. From her dress, my first reaction is probably the missing Chinese woman. I was surprised. ” The police were immediately informed.

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, the Japanese old man, found the suspected body of Wei qiujie when he picked up the kelp in the morning. The body of was found on this beach

police arrived at the scene and carried out a preliminary autopsy. It was found that the female body was 160 cm tall, wearing a white shirt, a red scarf and white sneakers. Her dress was the same as that of Wei qiujie when she disappeared. Therefore, it was suspected that the female body was Wei qiujie.

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have been partially ossified due to serious body damage. According to the preliminary judgment of the police, the time of death is estimated to be more than one month. The news of

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and “the discovery of the body of a woman suspected of being in danger of qiujie” has become a quick news report of major Japanese TV stations and news websites, which can be seen that Japanese society is worried about the safety of qiujie.

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, 26 year old Wei qiujie, arrived in Hokkaido on July 18 alone for tourism. On July 22, she left a farewell letter with her parents and left Sapporo’s hotel to come to Ahan lake alone. After checking in at a hotel, she left. On the afternoon of the 23rd, I spent an hour in a seaside caf é in penglu City, and there was no sighting after that. The disappearance of

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Wei qiujie has aroused great concern of the Chinese and Japanese governments and society. The Chinese Ministry of foreign affairs and the Chinese Embassy in Japan have repeatedly urged the Japanese side to search for them. Hokkaido police also set up a special search headquarters, and sent out helicopters, police dogs, etc. to search in the areas they had visited and witnessed. At the same time, many leaflets were printed to encourage local residents to search together, but in the past month, the whereabouts of Wei qiujie have not been found.

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police station of Chuanlu city have transported the body of the woman suspected of Wei qiujie back to the police station for judicial dissection to find out the cause of death, and at the same time conduct DNA identification to determine whether it is Wei qiujie himself or not. The fall of

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, a beautiful young life, is deplorable.

A piece of advice left by Wei qiujie’s death to overseas students

was confused all day for some reason. It may be that Hokkaido police released the DNA identification results of Wei qiujie, a female teacher of Fujian primary school who was found missing for more than a month. It officially confirmed that she had become a star, rather than a lovely girl beside her parents.

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from the disappearance of Wei qiujie to the discovery of a female body on the beach of banglu City, Hokkaido. I worked with many friends to reason, speculate, wish and expect, and finally failed to save her young life.

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although her relatives did not believe that Wei qiujie would choose to commit suicide, but the result of judicial identification belongs to drowning death, which is basically determined to be suicide.

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Japanese media reported that when Wei qiujie left Sapporo Hotel, he wrote a farewell letter to his parents. The letter reads, “I’m sorry, this is a letter of departure. Although I have lived for 27 years, I can’t go on working hard. If I’m not here, please don’t be upset. I will become a star to watch over you. I love you from my heart. ” From the death of Wei qiujie,

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, I came up with another question, that is, how should Chinese children who study in Japan spend the emotional vulnerability of studying abroad?

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were born on October 17, 1990 in Nanping City, Fujian Province. In 2013, Wei qiujie graduated from Sichuan University of business with a major in English. Last September 1st, she started a one year teaching practice at Shaowu Xincheng campus of Fujian experimental primary school. There, she teaches Chinese in grade three and English in grade six, each with a class. In January this year, she got the qualification certificate of primary and secondary school teachers and passed the open recruitment test for new teachers. She is about to become a teacher with a system. Her new life is beckoning to her. However, the new semester is about to begin, and students can no longer wait for the return of Mr. Wei.

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today, I read an article written by Liu Miao, a reporter of the Southern Metropolis Daily, saying that Wei qiujie is a very cheerful person on the surface, but behind the fun with friends, Wei qiujie also has a delicate mind and is not known by outsiders. She also had a fruitless love, but found that loneliness is the normal life, she said, “even so, please move forward with a smile.”.

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on August 21 last year, she wrote a diary on Douban. “Occasionally, something still needs to happen, in order to be more and more firm in her belief. I have my own way of living, one that I don’t regret, one that I am free with my nature. I don’t want all the noise. I just want to be alone. Then, I just want to be alone. ”

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are more than 1:00 a.m. on June 25 this year. She wrote on her microblog, “life is always very contradictory. No matter how lonely you are, you still need friends. With friends, you can’t solve loneliness. ”

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a month later, she came to Japan alone, to Hokkaido, and brought his collection of essays “the lion who loves salad”. Her farewell letter to her parents is contained in this book.

in the lion who loves salad, Murakami wrote, “it is because of unknown things that travel is interesting. If everything goes as planned and there is no accident, the trip will probably be meaningless. ”

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no one knows whether Wei qiujie has a resonance with them.

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Wei qiujie likes a song called “lost star”, which is the theme song of the movie “meet you again in New York”. In that song, British actress Keira Knightley sang in a low voice: “why is youth wasted in youth and ignorance? We are like lambs being hunted. We can only run blindly to find the meaning of existence. Maybe we are all lost stars, trying to dispel the darkness ahead… ”

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later, people found in the surveillance video in front of Sapporo Hotel, on the morning of July 22, when Wei qiujie left the hotel after writing her farewell letter, the iPad screen in her hand showed that she was listening to the song “lost star”.

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I think Wei qiujie is a very sensitive girl and a very artistic young woman. It can be seen from her growing up experience that she is not a girl who can read very well, but she is a girl who can struggle very hard. From Fujian to a common university in Chengdu, she tries hard to be an intern teacher, and then she tries hard to participate in the open recruitment examination for teachers. She can not easily get a formal teacher establishment. But suddenly, looking back, she finds that she is 27 years old and has no male My friend even has a formal job, but this job may not satisfy her very much. In a society full of competition and competition, Wei qiujie will feel that she is a laggard and a failure in life. Finally, I will have the choice to come to a foreign country alone and end my beautiful life in the beautiful Hokkaido. Because in the movie if you are the one, Liang Xiaoxiao, played by Shu Qi, wandered by the ahan Lake in Hokkaido and finally jumped into the sea in Hokkaido. Wei qiujie left Sapporo’s hotel and took a bus for more than 7 hours to Ahan lake and Yonglu city. The last road of her life was Liang Xiaoxiao’s road. However, the last result was that Liang Xiaoxiao was rescued by fishermen in Hokkaido and started her life again. When Wei qiujie was found by fishermen in Hokkaido, she had been dead for more than a month.

we feel sorry for Wei qiujie, and wish her to become a brilliant star in the sky and guard us. At the same time, her death has left a piece of advice to many peers, especially the children studying abroad: take responsibility, cherish life, cherish parents and family. Why the death of

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Wei qiujie shocked me so much is because several suicide cases of Chinese students in Japanese society in recent years made me think of the fragile feelings of young people and the pressure of studying abroad.

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last year, a netizen asked me to add wechat several times, saying that he asked me for help. I agreed to his request and added his microJust because you don’t succeed doesn’t mean you won’t succeed in your whole life. Today’s success does not mean that we will succeed in the future. You will feel relaxed and happy when you look at your life with your ordinary heart! Therefore, it is more important to cherish yourself and your family with a sense of responsibility. There will be no pie in the sky, but as long as you work hard, the pie will fall into your hands.